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前言：在爱尔兰某学校的LGBT社团活动上，我遇到了就读于新加坡的印度尼西亚籍华裔Nawi同学。他操着一口流利的新加坡英语和港台腔汉语，在各路人马间左右逢源地聊天。这完全不像我，说两句话就缩了。同爱尔兰人、南非人、意大利人、索马里人……一起去同志酒吧喝酒聊天，大家其乐融融，当然我还是决定维持自己的腼腆内敛的形象，以散发出迷人的东方情调。结果是只有东方人鸟我。比如Nawi。他们所有人到了爱尔兰都变成爱尔兰人那样，漫无边际地聊天聊到最后都忘了是和基友们在同志酒吧。LGBT社团似乎也只是特定的一些人到一起聊天喝酒而已。最后我得到一个结论（当然地图炮了）：爱尔兰人都是话痨+酒鬼。后来又和Nawi等东方面孔的同学一起出去玩了几次，觉得东南亚同学还真是（又地图炮了）多元文化混合的风情。且集束式地随便问了Nawi几组问题，顺便窃几张图来看看。
Section I. Some general questions concerning comrades
第一部分 一些关于同志们的常见问题
Q1: Some of my friends consider their recognition of the orientation as a big event in their life. What about you? How did you realize that you were different from other boys? How did you feel when you first found that you yourself should be attracted by a boy? Did you struggle a lot to accept yourself as non-straight?
问题束1：我的一些朋友们认为确认自己的性向（与众不同）是人生中的一件挺大的事情。你觉得呢？你当初是如何意识到自己和其他男孩子不一样的呢？
I don’t think ‘discovering myself’ is any big thing for me, it’s just a part and parcel of my life. I know I always looked at boys when I was young then I know that I am different. I just feel normal, just a preference. Nope I don’t struggle a lot. I accept who I really am 
我不认为“发现我自己”对我来说是什么重大的事情，它只是我人生中的一块内容。我小时候发现自己总是看男孩子，于是知道了自己是不一样的。我感觉（取向的问题）很平常，只是一个偏好。我没有经历什么内心的挣扎，我接受真实的自我
Q2: Are you out to anybody? Friends? Relatives? Parents? Would they accept you? Were there any stories when you came out?
问题束2：乃向谁出柜了么？朋友？亲戚？父母？他们会接受乃的么？出柜的时候发生了什么事情么？
I am out to my close friends and work colleagues. But definitely not my parents and relatives, they are conservatives. My friends can accept me very well however, I don’t think my parents will accept it well. I might tell them but not this time. I am sure my mom can sense something is wrong with me
我向一些要好的朋友和工作的同事出了。但一定不要是父母和亲戚，他们很传统的。虽然我的朋友们能很好地接受我，我父母肯定不行。我或许会告诉他们吧，但不是现在。不过我敢肯定，我妈妈能感觉到我的一些不对劲儿的地方
Q3: No offence! Could you please talk about your romance… How many boyfriends have you had, and how do you evaluate your emotional experience? What kind of guys do you enjoy most?
问题束3：没有冒犯的意思哦！能谈谈侬的罗曼史不……侬谈过几个男朋友，以及侬如何评价自己的感情经历呢？侬最控哪类男孩纸呢？
I used to flirt around (maybe I still am!) and had many flings. I will say I had one boyfriend before, it hurt so much that I am very picky in getting into relationship now. I am into any kind of guys as long as they give me sense of security, simple. I am a sensitive boy so it’s not easy to conquer me in a relationship. He must be someone who I can really trust.
我过去常常四处调情（或许现在我仍然是这样！），有过许多段那种漫不经心的感情。我会说我之前有过一个男朋友，那段感情伤我很深，现在我对于开始一段关系非常的挑剔。我对很多种男孩纸都有兴趣，只要他们给我安全感，很简单。我是一个敏感的男生，所以在感情关系中征服我可不是什么容易的事。他必须是我能够真正相信的人。
Q4: Do you prefer a long-term relationship with a boyfriend, which is stable and ordinary or short-term ones, which are always fresh? What do you think about the division of roles in a relationship (top/bottom/…)? Would you get married with somebody in the future? How would you like your life in the future be?
问题束4：汝更喜欢和一个男朋友保持长期稳定又平淡的关系，还是那种（经常换人的）新鲜的短期关系呢？汝对同志关系中的角色划分（攻/受/……）有何看法呢？汝会在将来和人结婚么？汝希望将来过什么样的生活呢？
I prefer stable and long term relationship. I played too much and it’s time for me to settle down. Sex roles (top/bottom/vers) are just preferences. They don’t determine how masculine or feminine you are. I might or might not get married, with guy or maybe girl. Nobody knows what the future is like. Definitely I want my other half to be financially stable and professional, we both will own one nice apartment with a pet dog and lead a nice comfortable life. (I do see myself to be successful in my career too, so I hope my other half will be somewhere around my level)
我更喜欢稳定的长期关系。我玩得太多了，是时候安定下来了。性角色（攻/受/万能）只是些偏好。它们并不决定你多么的男性化或女性化。我或许会结婚或许不会，和靓仔或者也许是靓女。没人知道未来将会是什么样子。确切地讲，我希望我的另一半是经济稳定的、专业的，我们会共同拥有一件公寓、一只宠物狗，过着美好的舒适的生活。（我也很希望看到我在自己所从事的领域取得成功，所以我希望我的另一半和我旗鼓相当）
我最讨厌两种人：深夜发食物照片的人；不识数的人；记性不好的人；深夜发食物照片的人。
“国外”也包括索马里、朝鲜？
